Blogging Friends.... This post was supposed to be
"published" yesterday night. But, alas, I was exhausted!! I could
hardly keep my eyes open, much less hear myself think!! Sigh.... I need to be "on" whenever I'm editing my work. Interesting.
I do not need to be "on" when
I'm writing!! My "brain juices" simply must flow!!
Routine. Canines abide by it. For
they possess the ability to tell time, experts say!! And, who can blame these beautiful four-legged creatures? After
all, owners feed them on regular schedules. They are walked at the same time
each day. Even love and affection can be fit into a schedule!! I am guilty of doing that!! So when
something colossal occurs, a canine's life can, to them, seemingly be turned
upside down!! Upside down. Rose may
have provided Grandma with her hearty bay-filled welcome-to-our-home greeting. However. Two days was enough for Rose. Enough. On Saturday, we all piled into
our Chevy minivan, and drove to a museum-like location. No canines allowed. Rose, of course, disliked that!! She so badly wanted to come with!! Truly
Rose thought it was strange that, immediately after Grandma settled in, we
would be leaving!! Sans her. Oh, she was
very upset with me!! Rose's Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder
"relapsed". It does that occasionally. For Rose is a usually calm
mutt, so hyperactivity seldom ever happens!! She ran from room to room,
bouncing off our walls like Winnie the Pooh's Tigger!! Seriously!! Following our exit, Rose balanced her front legs upon
the living room window, and those mighty vocal chords let out this pathetic series
of high-pitched baying!! Which happens
sometimes. My heart shattered like some broken glass as I listened
helplessly to Rose's lonesome crying before we drove away. I hate leaving her under these circumstances!! Hate it. I said my
silent prayer, which by now is routine, that God "be with Rose, keep her
safe, and remind her that I'll never leave her, nor forsake her". Then, the
next morning, on Sunday, we all piled into our car--once again--for church. Rose
was considerably calmer that time!! Yes!!
However, that afternoon, Rose became clingy to me. As though I were a
refrigerator, and she was some strong magnet!! Strange. It was as though we had travelled back in time to when she
was newly adopted!! Everywhere I walked, Rose followed. Plus, she was obviously
fidgety. What's wrong, Rose? I had zero idea. It's not like I am ignoring Rose
because Grandma is here. I could never be that type of Mama!! I know my little
girl's needs, wants, and behaviors. I
understand Rose. She needs my loving. Needs
it. So, I have stroked Rose's velvet-soft fur whenever possible. I've
continued with her walks. I have given Rose several baby carrots. I am certain
that Grandma now considers me some weird and crazy "dog person". But
that is okay!! Because I am!! It is
the truth about me which I cannot deny!! Anyway.
Should you ask Rose what is going on around here, she would most likely whine: Nobody's paying enough attention to me!! Doesn't
anyone understand that I'm the most important creature who ever walked this
planet? Anyone? Will you pet me? Will
you? Will you? Will you? This is animal neglect!! But. Do not believe one
single word!!
20 comments:
Raelyn we know you dote on Rose and she knows too. As you say she is the most important thing on the planet. Have a great Wednesday and we hope grandma is enjoying her stay.
Best wishes Molly
Aw! I hate leaving FInn behind also, but sometimes it is a must. Sometimes I tell her all about my day and where I have been while I was gone. Not like she understands, but it makes me feel better. That even though we were apart, I carried her around all day with me.
Sounds like you are doing a good job handling Rose's mood swings. I am sorry she is feeling neglected, but I think that happens when new situations occur. Dogs have different ways of adjusting and it seems Rose just needs reassurance from you that an added person, your grandma, will not upset your normal routines. I am sure in a few days she will settle down. It is great that you are so attuned to Rose's feelings and thus can address them right away. Good luck, and Rosie, everything is fine so please relax and just enjoy your grandma's visit. :->
Suka and K
Yep, we doggies be likes clock work so I ain't surprised Rose acted odd when you lefted hers.
And just likes Rose needs your love...you needs hers too.
Puddles
Molly....
Thank-you for the comment!!
I needed that encouragement, unbeknownst to me!! Thank-you!! ;op
Love, Raelyn.... And Rose, my BEAUTIFULLY UNIQUE "Mystery Dog"!!
Finn....
Thank-you for the comment!!
"Sometimes I tell her all about my day and where I have been while I was gone. Not like she understands, but it makes me feel better. That even though we were apart, I carried her around all day with me.". What a neat idea!! ;op
Rose is right....the world DOES revolve around her!
XXXOOO Daisy, Bella & Roxy
Suka and K....
Thank-you for the comment!!
"Mood swings"? Rose has "mood swings"!! Well, like Mama, like canine, I guess!! We are female, hear us.... Uh.... Bark? Hee, hee, hee.... ;-D
"It is great that you are so attuned to Rose's feelings and thus can address them right away.". Thanks. I'm doing the best I can!! ;op
Puddles....
Thank-you for the comment!!
"Just likes Rose needs your love...you needs hers too.". Agreed!! ;op
Daisy, Bella & Roxy....
Thank-you for the comment!!
Oh yeah!! This is obvious to everybody, too!! We do not hide it!! ;op
I love my routines too!
But... if my grandma or my mom needs to go out without me... I don't cry... but I make sure they know I am not a happy girl by giving them a very long face!
Take care
Kisses and hugs
Lorenza
Lorenza....
Thank-you for the comment!!
A long face!! Yeah.... Rose usually does that!! ;op
Rose is a lucky girl!
Eva loves routines and she has her own CLOCK that we are still learning how to read it.
Priscilla....
Thank-you for the comment!!
Well.... I am still learning, too.... ;op
Aw, poor Rose!
Nola is a dog that gets bored with routine (minus her food one ;), so thankfully she doesn't have issues with this kind of thing
Nola's Mom
It is really hard to leave them isn't it. When I go to work hubby says ours sulk all day and wont move till I get back.
Lynne x
Nola's Mom....
Interesting. I have never heard of a canine who "gets bored" with routine!! Well, we all know that Nola is special!! ;op
Lynne....
Thank-you for the comment!!
They "sulk all day and won't move till you get back". Shadow did that!! And. During vacations which did not involve her, Shadow refused to eat, even!! ;op
I think that Rose thinks your the best mom in the world!
love
tweedles
Tweedles....
Thank-you!! I oft wonder what Rose thinks about me, her weird and crazy Mama!! Hee, hee, hee.... ;op
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