Experts say that change is hard on canines. Whether it be a new environment.
Or divorce. Whether it be the arrival of a new baby. Or some move to another
home. Whatever mental and emotional adjustments required, it is hard on canines,
experts say. They're like people this way. For canines love routine. And, such
as with human beings, every dog adapts to change differently. Yesterday
afternoon, my Grandmother arrived for a visit from California. She will stay
here throughout the course of two weeks. Two
weeks. I was curious within my mind how Rose would handle this temporary
change, fretting that it might confuse her. To Rose, Grandma is a perfect
stranger.... And now she's invading our home!! But I ignored one truth. Rose is my sociable girl, and seemingly has this
set-in-stone opinion about mankind: Everybody
must love her!! Not a "dog person"? Too bad!! Rose will transform you with those magical colossal
brown eyes of hers!! Like they possess the power to bewitch, or something!! And
it works.... Nearly every time!! How does
she do that? When Grandma arrived, I was walking Rose. She knew that
something was happening. Immediately.
However, we kept right on walking for two reasons. That Grandma step foot into
our home sans a welcome of high-pitched baying. And, so when her suitcases were
being carried, Rose would not escape out the wide-open front door!! Plus I was
extremely nervous. Extremely nervous.
I get this way whenever Rose meets new people!! High-strung like some child
with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder. Which never helps Rose!! Must. Calm. Down!! Rose's meet-and-greet
with Grandma ran as smoothly as can be expected!! Once our front door was
closed, I unhooked her red leash. Rose bound toward Grandma, and let out this
brief series of baying!! Her happy
sound.... This means that she likes Grandma!! That evening, my tired
Grandmother slipped away and changed into her pajamas. Once Rose noticed
Grandma's absence, she stood up from her lying position. Rose walked over to
the white Lifetime chair where Grandma had been sitting. Her black nostrils
peered beneath Grandma's seat. Rose's head turned this direction and that
direction. It was as though her mind was thinking: Where's Grandma? She was here a second ago. My nostrils can still
detect her scent!! Where is she? It must have felt to Rose as though
Grandma had disappeared into her magic lamp like some genie!! Once Grandma
returned, Rose was satisfied!! Our "new" family member had come back!!
All is right with her world!!
22 comments:
We don't like strangers coming into OUR house either.....but we settle down very quickly when they give us some scratchies.
XXXOOO Daisy, Bella & Roxy
How sweet. We hope grandma has a lovely stay with you. Have a lovely Saturday.
Best wishes Molly
AW~ enjoy your visitors for the next two weeks!
It is amazing to know how dogs adapt to their new environment or get to know some new family members. So glad to hear that Rose was doing so well when Grandma arrived and she has accepted her as a new family member so soon. You did a great job!
Daisy, Bella & Roxy....
Thank-you for the comment!!
Yep!! That is what Rose did.... She settled down quickly!! And, Grandma may not be one of those so-called "dog people", nonetheless, she has stroked Rose's velvet-soft fur!! Hardly anybody can resist those magical colossal brown eyes!! ;op
Molly....
Thank-you for the comment!!
I hope that Grandma has a lovely stay with us, too!! ;op
Finn....
Thank-you for commenting!!
May the conversations, hours of board games, movie-watching, and adventures begin!! ;op
Priscilla....
Thank-you for the comment.... My new Follower!! ;)
"It is amazing to know how dogs adapt to their new environment or get to know some new family members.". My point made. Your point taken!! ;op
Sometimes strangers coming to my house scares me.
But once I sniff them.... everything is ok!
Glad Rose is happy with your Grandma's visit!
Take care
Kisses and hugs
Lorenza
Lorenza....
Thank-you for the comment!!
And welcome back, my Blogging Friend!! ;)
Rose love, love, loves Grandma being here!! ;op
how fun to have your grandmother come for a visit!
i think dogs know the difference between a "stranger" and "family". bailey doesn't have any trouble with my parents even though she has only seen them a few times. even upon their very first meeting, she went up to my mom with no hesitation whatsoever. i think we must have a similar scent that they can pick up on.
wags.
You should see our three when we have visitors. It is like an insane asylum (or you wish you were in one just to get away from the barking!)
Rose is such a good girl.
Lynne x
coffeedog....
Thank-you for commenting!!
"I think dogs know the difference between a 'stranger' and 'family'.". That is quite an interesting point, there!! I like it!! I have just never thought about dogs knowing the difference between a stranger and family before!! Thank-you for this newfound perspective!! ;op
Lynne....
Thank-you for the comment!!
Oh.... I can only imagine!! But what an image you have painted into my head!! Hee, hee, hee....
Rose is a good girl!! I have been very, very, very blessed!! ;op
Aw, this is such a sweet post. Rose seems like she has such a great temperament and I bet everyone loves her :-)
Stacey....
Thank-you for the comment!!
Rose does have a great temperament.... And, oh yes, everyone loves her!! ;op
Aw, she likes Grandma! Yay! Ours love their Grandmas very much. :-) Grandpa is not so crazy about the slobber, but he offers a pat here and there. ;-)
Rama's Mama....
Thank-you for the comment!!
Yes, Rose does like Grandma!! Grandma is not particularly an "anima person", but she has stroked Rose's velvet-soft fur!! Hardly anybody can resist those magical colossal brown eyes!! ;op
What a great story! Rose always lives up to expectations! She is so sweet and beautiful, and we knew she could melt any heart with her gorgeous eyes! I am sure she also felt the love of your family members toward your grandma, so that must have helped Rose remain calm and inviting toward her. We are very happy that the next two weeks will be full of happiness and love and fun with your grandma!
Suka and K
Suka and K....
Thank-you for the comment!!
"Rose always lives up to expectations! She is so sweet and beautiful, and we knew she could melt any heart with her gorgeous eyes!". That's right!! ;)
"I am sure she also felt the love of your family members toward your grandma, so that must have helped Rose remain calm and inviting toward her.". I have never thought about it quite that way!! Thank-you for this newfound perspective!! ;op
I'm so glad to hear rose took the change well. Good idea on walking her while your Grandma settled in.
Alison....
Thank-you for the comment!!
Yeah.... We were both a little high-strung that day!! ;op
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